Ubale wamiyoyo. Zikumbutso Zauzimu. Zolumikizana zauzimu. Tonsefe tinayenera kumva ndi kuwerenga za izi. Ndipo ena a ife tinali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi izi tokha. Nthawi zonse munthu amasiyanitsidwa ndi chidwi, koma anthu ambiri amangofuna chinthu chimodzi.
“Bwenzi limakupangitsa kuti uzimva ngati umunthu wathunthu, ngati kuti zithunzi zonse pamodzi. Nthawi yomweyo, mnzanu wa moyo akhoza kukhala wodalirika komanso wokuthandizani kwamuyaya, koma sangathe kupatsa mphamvu mzimu wanu, ”- a Carmen Harra.
Mkazi wokwatirana ndi wina ndi wosiyana ndi womanga naye banja. Anthu ena amapeza bwenzi lokhalira ndi moyo, sanakumanepo ndi wokwatirana naye komanso osayanjana ndi Mulungu. Maubwenzi oterowo amatha kukhala osangalala kwambiri ngati atamangidwa pakukhulupirirana, ulemu ndi ubale.
Mukudziwa, nthawi sikugonjera munthu, ndipo nthawi zina samatha kupirira zovuta zina. Ena aife sitingayembekezere zokambirana ndi wokwatirana naye, chifukwa chake tili okhutitsidwa ndi wokondedwa wathu.
Kwa ena, iyi ndi nkhani ya kupulumuka ndi chitetezo, ndipo sipangakhale kuyankhula kwa mizimu iliyonse. Pankhaniyi, lingaliro la mzimu wapachibale limawoneka ngati lota komanso losatheka.
Kusankha kwa munthu yemwe tikufuna kulumikizitsa miyoyo yathu kumayendetsedwa ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo moyo, nthawi, chitetezo ndi zina zambiri.
Pali kuthekera kwakukulu kwakuti muli kale omasuka komanso okonzeka kukumana ndi mnzanu wa muukwati, ndipo izi zidzachitika mwadzidzidzi komanso mosayembekezeka. Poyamba, malingaliro oterewa amabweretsa nkhawa komanso nkhawa, chifukwa uwu ndi mtundu watsopano wa ubale. Apa ndikosatheka kupeza mawu kapena mafotokozedwe omwe angapange mwa inu kumvetsetsa bwinokulumikizaku.
Uwu ndi mphamvu zamatsenga ndi malingaliro, osati kuyambitsa kukayikira pang'ono. Mwapeza wina ndi mnzake, motero mafunso onse amlengalenga ndi nthawi akutha.
M'malo mwake, njira zomwe chikondi chotere chimabwera chimabweretsa mavuto. Koma mudzazindikira nthawi yomweyo pomwe abwera kwa inu. Mungamve ngati mtsinje kapena lingaliro linalake lokhazikitsidwa ndi mphamvu yapamwamba. Ndipo mumabwezeranso kuti mupumire, chifukwa mkati mwanu mumazindikira kuti china chake chapadera chikukuchitikirani. China chatsopano. Panopa.
Izi zimachitika kawirikawiri, ndipo ndi zenizeni kwambiri mwakuti mukufuna kuthawa. Wokwatirana ndi mzimu ndi munthu yemwe magwiridwe ake amtunda wamtunda wautali. Yemwe amamva kunong'ona kwake akamangoganiza za iwe. Yemwe amakupatsirani ufulu wonse wochita, koma kuchokera kutali ndikuwona mthunzi wanu. Yemwe mumaganiza kuti mwamudziwa zaka miliyoni.
Mukayamba kuzolowera zomwe zidachitika, mudzazindikira kukongola ndi kusowa kwa chikondi ichi. Mudziwa kuti ndizowona, ndipo mnzanuyo ndi amene amasamalira, bwenzi komanso wokonda. Ndipo angakhale nanu kwamuyaya kapena ayi.
Nthawi zina wokwatirana naye amakumbutsa maluso owiwalika. Mwachitsanzo, kuti m'mbuyomu mumatha kulemba mabuku, kuyimba, kuchita kupanga, kuvina. Amayatsanso kunyezimira mwa iwe, kumayendetsa moto ndikuwakankhira patsogolo.
Nthawi zina munthu uyu amakhala nanu mpaka kalekale, ndipo nthawi zina amachoka. Koma mulimonsemo, kukhalapo kwake sikudziwika. Imakumbutsa za kufunika kokhala ndikukhulupirira.
“Kodi unakumana ndi munthu koyamba, koma mtima wako umakuwuza kuti unakumana kale?” - Joan Kenrick.
"Sitinapange chikondi kapena kupsompsona, koma kulumikizana kwathu mosaganizira kunatilepheretsa kulankhula ndipo tinangoyang'anitsana wina ndi mnzake," Jasmine Dubroff.
"Okwatirana ndi mizimu ndi anthu omwe amapeza zabwino zokhazokha mwa ife," mlembiyu sakudziwika.
Kukumana ndi mnzanu wa muukwati kumatha kukhala mtundu wa msampha. Musanalowe muubwenziwu kapena musanazindikire, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungadzikonde. Mwa kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha, mutha kukhala wina wokonzekera komanso wokonda kwambiri munthu wina.
Kukondana kumafunikira wokondedwa kuti mtima wawo ukhale wotseguka. Kusaka, mapemphero, zolingalira komanso kusinkhasinkha sizingakuthandizeni kukomana ndi mnzanu wa muukwati. Inemwini, sindimakhulupirira. Palibe amene angadzakhale bwenzi lanu la moyo kapena kudzaza kapu yanu, kupatula nokha.
Inde, mnzanu wa muukwati amatha kudzutsa zikumbukiro, kudzoza ndikupanga moyo wabwino munjira inayake, koma inu, ndi inu nokha, ndiye omwe mumapanga chisangalalo chanu chanu.
Ingochitani chinthu chanu. Kondani ndi kudzisamalira. Dzazani zopanda kanthu mu moyo wanu ndikuyatsa lawi mwa inu nokha. Ndipo, ngati munthu woyenera akuwonekera m'moyo wanu, mudzakhala okonzeka.
“Osadandaula ndi kufunafuna kwa mnzako. Dzitengere Yekha, ”- Jason Evert.
Kodi mumafunitsitsa kudziwa? Kenako ingowerenga nkhaniyi mpaka kumapeto, kenako dzifunseni kuti amene mumam'konda ndi ndani: mnzanu wa muukwati kapena bwenzi lanu?
Chifukwa chake, zizindikiro khumi za soulmate (malinga ndi chiphunzitso cha Dr. Carmen Harr):
- Amachokera mkati.
Ndikosavuta kufotokozera nkhawa zonse zomwe mnzanuyo amakumana nanu. Ndimphamvu, yakuya komanso yokhazikika yomwe singathe kufotokozedwa m'mawu osavuta. - Flashbacks.
Ngati munthu ndi mnzanu wa muukwati, pali kuthekera kwakukulu komwe mudakhala kale m'moyo wakale. Mwinanso mukukondweretsedwa ndimalingaliro ena deja vu kuti kalekale zinthu ngati zomwezi zidakuchitikirani, koma nthawi zina. - Mumakopeka ndi mnzake.
Kodi mwakumana ndi anthu omwe amaliza ziganizo zingapo? Ena amachitcha kuti zotsatira za nthawi yayitali yolumikizana, koma ine ndimayitcha kuti ubale. Itha kukhazikitsidwa pakati panu ndi mnzanu kapena mayi wanu wapamtima, koma zenizeni zimawululidwa kokha ndi mnzake. - Mumamukonda ngakhale zolakwa zake.
Palibe ubale wabwino, ngakhale pakati pa okwatirana. Koma kulumikizana kwa chomaliza ndikovuta kwambiri kuthana. Okwatirana maukwati ndi osavuta kuposa ena kuvomereza ndi kukondana ndi zolephera za mnzake.
- Chilichonse ndichachikulu.
Maubwenzi am'banja omwe ali ndi moyo akhoza kukhala akulu kwambiri komanso otakataka kuposa maubwenzi wamba, onse abwino komanso opanda malingaliro, awa ndi mawu. Chinthu chachikulu - ngakhale munthawi zosavomerezeka kwambiri, khalani chete pakuyesetsa kuthetsa vutoli ndikuyesa kuwona kuwala kumapeto kwa ngalande. - Inu awiri mukutsutsana ndi dziko lonse lapansi.
Anthu okwatirana miyoyo nthawi zambiri amawona ubale wawo motsutsana ndi dziko lonse lapansi. Amakhala "olumikizidwa" kotero kuti pomwe mnzake akupita nawo limodzi, amakhala okonzeka ndipo akufuna kutenga chilichonse kuchokera pamoyo. - Mwanjira, iwo ndi osagwirizana.
Pakati pa mizimu yoyanjana nthawi zambiri kulumikizana komweku kumakhazikitsidwa ngati pakati pa mapasa. Chifukwa chake, amatha nthawi imodzi kuti foni iyimbane. Ndipo ngakhale nthawi zina moyo ungakulekanitseni, malingaliro anu nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito mogwirizana. - Pamodzi muli omasuka komanso otetezeka.
Nthawi zonse amakupatsirani chitetezo komanso kudzidalira. Mkazi wanu wamoyo amawoneka ngati mngelo womuteteza. Ndipo amene amangotaya mwayi wanu wosatetezeka (kaya mwakufuna kwanu kapena mosazindikira) sindiye mnzanu wa muukwati. - Simungathenso kuganizira za moyo wanu popanda iye.
Mnzake wam'madzi amatchedwa mnzake wamatsenga yemwe sangangotenga kuchokera kwa iwe. Uyu ndi munthu wopanda amene zimakuvutani kuyerekezera moyo wanu. Mumamukhulupirira ndipo mwakonzeka kumenyera nkhondo. - Mumayang'anana m'maso.
Pakukambirana, anthu okwatirana amayang'ana m'maso mwa wina ndi mnzake koposa banja wamba. Chowonadi ndi chakuti pali kulumikizana kwakukulu pakati pawo. Ngati, mukamalankhula, mumayang'ana pamaso pa munthu wina, zikutanthauza kuti muli omasuka pafupi naye ndipo mumakhala wolimba mtima.
Kodi wokwatirana ndi mzimu ndi chiani?
Lingaliro la wokwatirana ndi mzimu limatha kudziwika munjira yake kutengera zomwe munthu amaika mu lingaliro ili. Kwa munthu m'modzi - iyi ndi theka lachiwiri lomwe amalumikiza moyo wake ndikupanga banja. Malinga ndi malamulo a Vedic, mizimu yoyanjana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi imatha kutchedwa lawi lamapasa, lopangidwa kuchokera ku lingaliro limodzi lathunthu ndikugawanika polar kwa mzake. Zimavomerezeka kuti mumalawi awiri, kuphatikiza ndi amuna ndipo opanda mkazi, polumikizana wina ndi mzake amapanga mphamvu yodabwitsa ya chikondi ndi chisangalalo. Satya Das mu zokambirana zake za "Fufuzani mapasa ndi mapasa am'manja" akufotokozera bwino za ubale womwe uli mumoto wamoto ndipo amaphunzitsa komwe angapeze ndi momwe angakonzekere msonkhano ndi mnzanu wa muukwati.
Kwa munthu wina, mzimu wapachibale ndi ubale wa anthu omwe ali ndi mfundo zambiri zolumikizana zomwe zawalumikiza kwamuyaya, ngakhale ndi jenda, amapanga ubale kapena ubale wapabanja. Kutengera ndi lingaliro ili, okwatirana mwa mzimu akhoza kukhala abwenzi, abale ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zokonda zofananira. Maubwenzi achichepere amatengera kuti anthu amakhala omasuka pokhapokha ngati zili zabwino, komanso ngati zili zoipa, amatha kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake mu malingaliro. Mu Orthodoxy, wokwatirana naye mzimu ndiye mzimu amene amakhulupirira mphamvu ya Mulungu, ndipo iyi ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pokhudzana ndi anthu ena.
Ndipo pali anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti mzimu wa abale umakhala ndi moyo mwa mwayi, ndipo ndiamene ayenera kuphunzitsa maphunziro amoyo omwe amafunikira munthawi yoperekedwa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti, atakwaniritsa cholinga chake, amachoka, ndipo timakhala ndi nkhawa tikamasiyana. Miyoyo yotereyi itha kufotokozedwa ngati: Mzimu wopanda tanthauzo, womwe umawonekera pakadutsa funso lofunikira komanso mosazindikira ndikupereka yankho lanzeru. Munthu amangofunikira kumva kulumikizidwa ndikuganiza kuti kwinakwake unamuwona ndikulandira yankho.
Moyo wochiritsa womwe umawoneka pakanthawi kovutika m'maganizo ndikumakhalabe mpaka utachiritsidwa kwathunthu, ndiye umachoka, ndikusiya chowopsa chakulekana ndi womanga naye banja.
Moyo wonjenjemera, cholinga chake ndikupanga kusintha m'moyo wa munthu nthawi yomwe akuwasowa, mzimu ukakhala kuti ukusokonekera. Mzimu wamtunduwu sikuti nthawi zonse umakhala wabwino, ndipo nthawi zina munthu amabweretsa kusintha mu fano la mdani.
Ndipo palinso ziphunzitso zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti mizimu yonse ndi yogwirizana, ndipo kulumikizana pakati pawo sikuyenera kusokonezedwa. Chifukwa chake, molingana ndi malamulo a Chisilamu, mizimu yachibale ndi abale omwe amachokera ku makolo a Adamu ndi Eva, ndichifukwa chake anthu achipembedzochi amawona ubale wamabanja ndipo, pogwiritsa ntchito pemphero lachisilamu, amalimbitsa ubale pakati pawo. Malinga ndi ndakatulo za a Kryon, akukhulupirira kuti anthu onse ndi mizimu yoyanjidwa yomwe idabwera padziko lapansi kudzaphunzitsidwa ndi kukulitsa uzimu, kuti palimodzi athe kulowa gawo lina. Ndipo chiphunzitso cha Kryon ndicho chomwe chimanyamula chiphunzitso chodzipangira miyoyo yodalirika pakati pawo kuti akhale mwamtendere ndi bwino munjira yatsopano.
Zizindikiro za Mkazi Womwalira Ndi Moyo
Zizindikiro za mzimu wapamtima zimatha kusiyanitsidwa kosatha, zonse zimatengera zomwe munthu amafuna kuti awone ndikumverera pokhudzana ndi theka lake la uzimu. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zomwe mungazindikire kuti mnzanuyo ali pafupi:
- kuthekera kukhala nokha, osati ndi munthu aliyense yemwe mungathe kutulutsa moyo wanu osawopa kupweteka,
- Mtendere wa m'maganizo mukakhala bwino ndi munthu, ngakhale mutakhala chete,
- kudzoza, kutengeka kwachikondi kuchokera kwa wokwatirana naye kumakhala kwakukulu kotero kuti kumasintha kukhala chikhumbo chofuna kupanga ndi kupanga,
- kumverana chisoni, momwe malingaliro ndi malingaliro a munthu m'modzi amasonyezedwa kwathunthu pamunthu,
- zokonda ndi zizolowezi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale limodzi kuti akule bwino.
Momwe mungapezere munthu womanga naye banja
Asanayambe kusaka wokwatirana naye, aliyense ayenera kufunsa funso: chifukwa chiyani munthu akufuna wokwatirana naye. Pali chiphunzitso chakuti m'mbuyomu mizimu yoyanjana inali pamodzi, koma panthawi yomweyo chiyembekezo chidayanjana nawo kuti apezane, atagonjetsa mayesero chifukwa cha zomwe munthu amakula ndikukula m'maganizo.
Pali machitidwe ndi njira zambiri zomvetsera kuti ndinakumana ndi munthu wokwatirana naye, tiyeni tiwone njira zoyambira.
Theta Hilling Mchitidwe
Woyambitsa nthambi yochiritsa, Vianna Stable, amalimbikitsa lingaliro la wokwatirana naye m'maphunziro ake monga ubale pakati pa mizimu yomwe idadutsa pakubadwanso kwatsopano m'mbuyomu ndipo sanataye chikondi ndi chidwi kwa wina ndi mnzake. Amanenedwa kuti chiphunzitso chakuti mzimu wapachibale umatha kukhala osiyanasiyana, munthu amatha kumazungulira ndi mizimu yoyanjana, chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi mzimu wopitilira, akhoza kukhala angapo chifukwa cha karma yofanana. Chifukwa chake, njira yotsatsira ndi kuthandizira imathandiziranso kuvumbulutsa masewera anu a karma kuti adziwe mzimu wanu ndikukopa.
Chiphunzitsochi chimawulula tanthauzo la kusaka popeza kuti ndi chikumbumtima chomwe chimakopa miyoyoyo yomwe imadziyang'anira yokha, kuwaganizira komanso kuwayimira. Chifukwa chake, tanthauzo la ukadaulo ndikudzitsegulira ndekha, kuthana ndi mantha ndi kukayika konse kwamkati, kuwulula lingaliro la wokondedwa wabwino ndikukhala okonzeka mkati mwamgwirizano pamsonkhano.
Maphunzirowa amachitika m'masiku awiri, omwe akuphatikizapo:
- kutsegula mtima wanu ndikupeza mwayi wokonda nokha ndi ena,
- kupeza kudzidalira kokwanira,
- kuthana ndi zolakwika ndi mantha mu maubale.
Vianna Stable akuwonetsa kuti muyenera kusiya kufunafuna mzimu ndi kutaya nthawi, muyenera kudzisamalira ndipo moyo womwewo ubwera m'moyo wanu, mukumva momwe munthuyu alili paubwenzi.
Kusaka kwa mzimu ndi kundalini
Poyamba, tiyeni timvetsetse zomwe inialini - iyi ndi mphamvu yomwe imadzutsa mphamvu ya moyo komanso kuzindikira kwa munthu pamlingo wa superman. Mphamvu za Kundalini zimapezeka mwa munthu aliyense kuchuluka kwake kuchirikiza moyo mthupi la munthu, koma zowonjezera sizokwanira. Ku yoga, pali kusinkhasinkha - shabda, kuwonjezera kundalini ndi kukopa mnzanu wamoyo, zomwe zingathandize kuwonjezera nyonga yake.
M'maphunziro a wolemba odziwika a Andrei ndi Anastasia Hans, "Miyoyo Yatsopano," momwe Shabd amathandizira kukopa mzimu. Mothandizidwa ndi maphunziro omwe mungathe kuchita:
- kulumikizana ndi moyo wanu,
- kulowa mu mgwirizano ndi mnzanu wa muukwati,
- kuphunzira njira yakukopa wokwatirana naye m'moyo wanu.
Ambiri mwa omwe akuchita nawo maphunzirowa amawona kulimba kwauzimu kwa mphamvu, ndi chowala chamkati chomwe chingapangitse miyoyo yawo kumoyo.
Sakani mzimu kudzera mchikhulupiriro
M'chipembedzo chilichonse mumakhala othandizira pakusaka wokwatirana naye, yemwe mungathe kupemphera kuti athandizidwe. Mu Orthodoxy, mngelo wamkulu Hamil, yemwe amayang'anira chikondi ndi ubale. Mu Chisilamu, mutha kutembenukira kwa Mtumiki Muhammad ndi pemphero la Asilamu. Ndikumwamba komwe ulusi wamitundu yonse ulumikizidwe womwe umalumikiza anthu pakati pawo, ndipo zili m'mphamvu zochokera kumwamba kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi mtendere wamalingaliro. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa dziko lomwe likuzungulirani, mverani, chifukwa posachedwa kukuthandizani kudziwa momwe mungapezere mnzanu wa muukwati.
Kusaka kwa mzimu ndi esotericism
Nthawi zina, chifukwa chosungulumwa, anthu amathamangira kwa amatsenga ndi mfiti kuti akathandizire kufunafuna munthu womanga naye banja, kuyesera kupeza chisangalalo mothandizidwa ndi kulosera zam'tsogolo pakulosera.
Pali machitidwe ambiri ndi kunena zamphamvu zokhudzana ndi mizimu yomwe mukukwatirana nayo, koma ambiri samayang'ana momwe angadziwire munthu wokwatirana naye, koma pakumvetsetsa ngati munthu yemwe amakhala pafupi ndi mnzanu wamukwati.Wambiri mwayi kudzakuwuzani ngati kuli koyenera kuyang'ana mwa munthu kuti amuthandize komanso kukhala wodekha.
Pali miyambo mu esoteric kukopa munthu wachibale ku moyo wa m'modzi, koma nthawi zina amakhala ndi zokhumudwitsa, chifukwa ndiyofunika kulipira chilichonse chamatsenga, koma ndi chiyani, izi zidzadziwika mtsogolomo. Zowonadi, nthawi zina, ngati mukubweretsa mzimu wabwinobwino nthawi yolakwika, mutha kukumana ndi choopsa chakugawana nawo, monga zomwe zidabwera nthawi yolakwika.
Sakani mzimu ndi thandizo la manambala
Anthu ambiri amaganiza: ndizotheka kupeza mnzanu wa muukwati pogwiritsa ntchito tsiku lobadwa. Mu manambala, pali lamulo la concord, lomwe likuti ngati kuchuluka kwa moyo wanu kuli kofanana kapena kukhala kogwirizana ndi mzimu wamunthu wanu, ndiye kuti mwakumana ndi womanga naye banja. Cholemba choyambirira: 1 - 5 - 7, chachiwiri: 2 - 4 - 8, chachitatu: 3 - 6 - 9. Kuti muwerenge kuchuluka kwa miyoyo, ndikofunikira pa mavawelo onse apabanja la dzinalo ndi patronymic kuti musankhe ndikuwonjezera manambala awo, ndikupita ku nambala imodzi . Ndikofunika kukupindani kunyumba komanso ndi mnzanu.
A | E | Ё | Yu | Ndipo | O | At | E | Ndine | S |
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1 | 6 | 7 | 5 | 1 | 7 | 3 | 4 | 6 | 2 |
Sakani mzimu ndi chizindikiro cha zodiac
Kuti mumvetse momwe mungapezere mnzanu wamoyo ndi chizindikiro cha zodiac, tiyeni tiwone chomwe chizindikiro cha zodiac ndichakuti - awa ndi magawo 12 omwe amagawa thambo ndipo m'gawo lililonse muli nyenyezi, kutengera momwe nyenyezi zimapangidwira, zomwe zimaneneratu tsogolo la munthu. Ndi angati a inu amene mumaganiza kuti mothandizidwa ndi horoscope mutha kupeza mnzanu wa muukwati? Kutengera zomwe nyenyezi zimanena, titha kudziwa:
Aries ndi chikhalidwe chokonda kwambiri, chifukwa ma Aries ndiwofunikira kwambiri ngati othandizana nawo: mikango, oponya mivi ndi azomatira
Taurus - akuyang'ana kukhulupirika, abwenzi abwino: khansa, capricorn, anamwali ndi nsomba,
mapasa - akufuna ubale wosazolowereka, woyenera kumanga naye banja: mkango, masikelo ndi Aquarius,
nsomba zazinkhanira - ndi mtima wabwino, zoyenera: Scorpion, ng'ombe, nsomba ndi namwali,
mkango - wokhala ndi chikhalidwe cholimba, wofunafuna: mapasa, zolemera, oponya mivi ndi mauwa,
Virgo - imafuna mnzake wolimba, wokwanira: zinkhanira. capricorns, crayfish ndi ana a ng'ombe,
Mamba - chokongoletsera, kufunafuna: mapasa, aquarius, zinkhanira ndi mikango,
Chinkhanira - chodabwitsa, kufunafuna: mikango, aquarius, nkhosa zamphongo ndi zolemera,
Sagittarius - munthu wophatikiza, akufunafuna: mikango, aquarius, nkhosa zamphongo ndi zolemera,
Capricorn - wokongola, wosaka: nsomba, ana amphongo, anamwali ndi zinkhanira,
Aquarius - yoseketsa, yoyang'ana: zolemera, nkhosa zamphongo, mapasa ndi oponya mivi,
nsomba - kulenga, kuyang'ana: nsomba zazinkhanira ndi zinkhanira, capricorn ndi ng'ombe.
Momwe mungazindikire womanga naye banja pamlingo wamaganizo
Poyamba, tiyeni timvetsetse lingaliro la malingaliro - uwu ndi mulingo womvetsetsa wa dziko lapansi, mothandizidwa ndi kuzindikira kwathu panjira ya moyo, uku ndiko kuyambira kwa uzimu kwa munthu aliyense, kuwunikiridwa kwake.
Pali chiphunzitso chakuti ndi mzimu wapachibale timamva kuyanjana kwapadera komanso kulumikizana mwakuya kwa uzimu. Zimadziwulula ndendende mukakhala nokha, mumvetsetsa zomwe mukuopa komanso zotsutsana, ndikuthandizira kutsegukira kudzikoli. Pofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga chake, munthu ayenera kudziwa kuti moyo wake uyenera kupindulira anthu, ndipo cholinga chake sichovuta, komanso kuchita ntchito zabwino.
Kuti mudzidziwulule, muyenera:
- mvetsetsa zomwe mukufuna kuchokera pamoyo,
- kulowa mkati mwanu, kuti mudziphunzitse nokha,
- yambani kulumikizana ndi anthu ambiri amodzimodzi, podziyang'ana okha kudzera mu kuzindikira kwawo.
Ndikosangalala kwambiri kupeza mnzanu wa muukwati ndikusangalala mu uzimu, ziribe kanthu, ngakhale zitakhala mphindi, koma wosangalala. Nthawi zonse muzikumbukira kuti posachedwa mnzanuyo adzakhala pafupi ndipo ichi ndi mphatso yamtsogolo kwa inu.