Zinthu zimene pakati pa anthu awiri wasonyeza maganizo, nzeru kapena thupi ngakhale - kuti ndi kuchuluka ngakhale pakati pa ziwalo biorhythm (kapena kwanthawi ndege) kukhala wofanana kapena pafupi - peresenti 100.
The kuchepetsa kuchuluka ngakhale - m'munsi umboni wa katundu ngakhale. Ndipo mogwirizana - apamwamba chiwonetsero cha katundu osiyanitsidwa, mwachitsanzo zosagwirizana.
Maganizo ngakhale.
Maganizo ngakhale kumaonekera pakati pa anthu awiri kwa kanthawi ubale wokhulupilirana.
Kumvetsana wina ndi mzake ku dera maganizo chifukwa cha kuchepa munthawi yomweyo ndi kuwuka kwa biorhythm maganizo awo.
Kudziwa zimenezi kwa mzake akubweretsa wokhutira ndi phindu la chikhulupiriro maganizo.
M'kupita kwa nthawi, pali kukufunikira wina ndi mzake.
Makamaka pamene kugwirizana maganizo amabwera tsiku lililonse kwa nthawi yaitali.
Maganizo ngakhale sikutanthauza kwambiri ntchito maganizo.
Akazi, musati mulibe kuyesezera kukondedwa kuyesera kupanga nokha bwino. Amakondana momwe iwo aliri, ndi zolakwa zawo zonse.
Kenako anafooka mphamvu maganizo, imbaenda chakuti pamene banja nokha - pakati pawo akonzedwa kuti zinali kutsekedwa kwa dziko lina kumene mgwirizano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zambiri amatikumbutsa ubale osati anthu akuluakulu ndi ana. Wosasatitsidwa ndi osangalala.
Iwo kawirikawiri mzake maina diminutive kapena ziweto ndi kumachita zolakwa wina ndi mzake.
Ngati mkangano ndi zidzachitika pa "wokongola makani - odzisangulutsa monga", ndipo kenako ndewu akukhala kucheperachepera chifukwa banjali anaona kuti chifukwa maganizo okondedwa - iwo zimva pamodzi ndi zosachepera amachita.
M'kupita kwa nthawi, banjali kukhala ndekha ndi mzake - onse kufanana chidutswa chimodzi ndipo chilichonse - saletsa ndi mzake mwangwiro.
Pa ngakhale mkulu maganizo - akazi konse kusungulumwa, akudwala kumasokoneza ubongo.
kwa iwo, nthawi ntchentche mofulumira ndipo mwakachetechete.
Maganizo ubwenzi mosavuta kusokonezedwa ndi chikondi, koma ali wofanana: chikondi maganizo amafuna kuti bwenzi ali pafupidi osati kwinakwake kutali, kapena Maulendo a. Maganizo kukumbukira - kwambiri nthaŵi yochepa. Ndipo ngati naye kutha ndipo mwadzidzidzi pafupi wina ndi yemweyo mkulu ngakhale maganizo nthawi yomweyo kuvutika kwa bwenzi lakale ambiri kutha. Ndipo kukumbukira si a nkhawa kwambiri.
Maganizo chikondi - pachiyambi. Ndi amphamvu, koma chofunika kwambiri za izo ndi zosiyana kwambiri ndi chikondi cha nsapato, kapena mphaka.
Komabe, chimamanga kwambiri kuposa thupi kapena kwa nzeru, ndipo ndi imodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri kwa akazi a.
Pa nthawi yomweyo, maganizo chikondi - opusa ndi n'kosathandiza Mwachitsanzo, mwachisawawa odutsapo pa kumwetulira msewu zingachititse nsanje mumtima. Ndipo kukangana. Zingakhale zabwino kwambiri kapena wankhanza.
chikondi maganizo - ndi m'malo kusonyezedwa kwa nyama munthu kuposa wololera.
Kuwonjezera anthu, ndi ku mtundu wa chibadidwe nyama zambiri.
Mwachitsanzo mphaka amene amabisa amphaka wake pa ngozi. Kapena mbalame iri yofulumira kwa mdani pafupi ndi chisa chake ndi anapiye.
N'zosatheka kunena chikondi chimenechi yekha achibadwidwe nyama.
Izo zikuwoneka ngati nyama zina gawo chibadidwe cha mphamvu, amene akhoza zimachitika mumtima. Ndi mawonetseredwe maganizo awa - nthawizina chinachake tikuchita munthu.
Koma kubwerera ku katundu wa ngakhale m'maganizo.
Maganizo ngakhale - umabala zabwino ndi chikondi undemanding azilemekeza. Kuti njira m'kupita kwa makhalidwe awo khalidwe monga owonongedwa, akulembayo, digiri yapamwamba ya softness ndi mtima wina ndi mnzake.
Ana ndaleredwa mu zinthu ngakhale wangwiro m'maganizo ndi mmodzi wa akazi a - chikondi kuposa ena, koma khalidwe la ana awa makhalidwe amene ali chibadidwe katundu wa mkulu maganizo ndi mogwirizana Ngakhale - katundu maganizo maganizo wofooka chifukwa cha ichi. Izo - asokoneza, chizolowezi kusamvera, moodiness, tsankho, mphwayi ena, ndipo kudzikonda kuchuluka, etc ...
Maganizo kwawo.
Tangophunzira za katundu wa ngakhale m'maganizo.
Ndipo chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati pakati pa anthu - palibe ngakhale?
chakuti katundu izi sizidzakhala - izi ndi zoonekeratu, koma funso ndi - zimene zidzachitike m'malo? Mwina chidwi naye chiyani?
Yankho ndi - palibe.
Iwo m'malo katundu chosiyana. Iwo akhoza kukhala kotero zosasangalatsa mwamuna kuti mphamvu mphwayi - adzakhala bwino njira kuti iwo.
Choncho, katundu wa zosagwirizana maganizo.
Maganizo amaonera zochitika ku ampangira pandunji.
The nthabwala chomwecho angakupangeni kuseka munthu mmodzi, koma ngati zosasangalatsa ndi mzake.
Nthawi zambiri kuseka mwamuna kusalandira zina, zikuoneka kuti iye achipongwe kapena chipongwe. Anataya kudzipereka pa maubwenzi.
Ngati mmodzi mwa anthu omwe akufuna kuti "kutsanulira" moyo akukumana wina mphwayi kuzizira.
Choncho, abwenzi mosavuta chifukwa chisoni wina ndi mzake.
Pali chizolowezi kusokonezeka maganizo, mikangano.
Chifukwa cha zimenezi, anzanga anayamba chikopa ndipo sakhulupirira mzake maganizo awo.
Umayamba kuonekera mu chikhalidwe mwachinsinsi.
Iwo ali ndi vuto la kusungulumwa.
Patapita nthawi, anzanga anayamba maganizo anaberekera mnzake pamaso pawo, ndi momwe "Kankhani" mzake.
Mmodzi wa iwo amakonda kukhala kunyumba pamene ena - mwachitsanzo kuntchito, ndi mosemphanitsa.
Dziko mumtima ya aliyense wa iwo - ndi chatsekedwa kwa wina ndi mzake.
Ndipo ngati banja silithetsedwa (mwachitsanzo chifukwa ana wamba) ndi machitidwe ndi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi wa. Amawathandiza monganso - mwamtendere azikhala.
wina ndi mnzake, iwo mlandu wosachedwa kupsa ndi Mwakachetechete kudana.
Pomaliza Ndikufuna kupita ku kumayambiriro kwa mutu ndi kumveketsa mbali inanso yofunika kwambiri.
Ife tikudziwa kuti ngakhale biorhythms kumawonetsera ena katundu ndi atakwatirana - ena.
Koma nthawi zambiri weniweni ndi kuti pakati pa anthu pali tsankho ngakhale, Chabwino, mwachitsanzo - 50 peresenti.
Zimene zinachitika? Mwina katundu ndi "amaona"? Kapena kukhala null alionse?
Ayi. Chirichonse wosalira zambiri. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo - ndi kobvuta kwambiri.
Kungoti kuti panthawi imene ali kukula olowa - iwo kuonetsa zochotsa.
Pamene mavuto - chuma sichikuyenda.
Koma vuto ndi kuti inconstancy zoterozo mu chiwonetsero cha katundu amasonyeza mu malingaliro a anthu monga ena m'chikaiko chowakaikitsa, nkhawa, kapena osakhalitsa m'banjalo.
Weruzani nokha, mu nkhani ya zosagwirizana wathunthu azilemekeza - iwo akugwira ntchito katundu wa kwawo.
Ndipo makhalidwe amenewa sasintha moyo pamodzi awo.
Pankhani ya ngakhale zonse - iwo azolowere moyo ndi katundu ngakhale. katundu izi kukhalabe sichinasinthe.
Akazi azolowere iwo ndi moyo ndi kwamuyaya.
Koma mu nkhani ya tsankho ngakhale - ndi kuwasiya alibe nthawi mawonekedwe. Popeza katundu ngakhale - nthawi zonse anyamata.
Kodi izo kutsogolera - tikambirana mwatsatanetsatane mu chaputala otsatirawa.
Koma ambiri, tikhoza kunena kuti ngakhale tsankho ali ubwino wake ndi kuipa.
ubwino monga chakuti kuzunza akazi ntchito kwambiri, moyo - poyerekeza ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi komwe katundu sasintha - kutanthauza kuti muli ngakhale zonse kapena zosagwirizana amene amapanga wathunthu kapena zinthu motayirira ndi ngakhale zonse kapena yimitsira - kwawo.
Onse ali oipa kwa ntchito, zokolola - onse kunja ndi mkati, kotero izo ziri mu mbali imeneyi - tsankho ngakhale yapambana angapo.
Aluntha ngakhale.
Pakati ngakhale ozindikira ndipo maganizo, pali china chofunika kwambiri ndi wapadera kusiyana.
Timadziwa kuti iye yekha ndi ngakhale maganizo ndi akuwonetseredwa mu dera maganizo, zabwino maganizo ngakhale katundu.
Wachisoni - kwawo.
Mosiyana, mu dera aluntha - akuwonetseredwa osati zabwino komanso ena katundu zoipa ndi ngakhale.
Mwachitsanzo nkhani ya moyo monga kukangana pakati pa akazi ndi.
Kaya chifukwa - mkulu aluntha ngakhale zimawonjezera mkangano "tsabola". Ndi kumenya akazi. Lomwe ndi limodzi mwa makhalidwe oipa a ngakhale ozindikira.
Pa zosagwirizana chomwecho - zimatha zoipa kuyang'ana kuzimiririka ndithu ndipo amafanana mphwayi ndi bwenzi, kuti nzeru ndi maganizo ake.
Ndipo nthawi zambiri, ngakhale - kuti mfundo yake ya view.
Gulu lalikulu, anzanga zambiri osaganizira mzake.
Ndipo mu mgonero yekha - kumuona ena ngati anzake zosangalatsa ndiponso anzeru, koma wosangalatsa, uninteresting ndi zovuta kuzimvetsa.
Kukambirana zambiri osati glued.
Mu banja, n'zosavuta kuti anyenge mzake, komanso sadziwa pomvetsetsana ndi ena zinthu, amawaona kukhala kanthu, koma palibe mkwiyo za izi ndipo samaona ndi za iwo m'malo ndi otsetsereka.
Othandiza chabe sakuzindikira lililonse zokwanira ena kulingalira mnzake ngati anthu osati kwambiri anayamba mawu a nzeru.
Koma ine kubwereza - zonsezi kwakukulukulu popanda mkwiyo.
Mkwiyo zitha kuoneka pa ngakhale mkulu aluntha.
Mkulu aluntha ngakhale.
Kulumikizana ndi akazindikira munthu, amachotsa, akuona kuti amvetsetse mmene iye amaganizira, pamapeto pali azidzidalira, ndi kufuna kuteteza maganizo awo, kutsimikizira wosalakwa. Amene ali ndi ubwino zochita weniweni, zochita.
Ngati pali ena zolinga zofanana kukwaniritsa - ngakhale n'zimene zimachititsa abwenzi, amapereka mphamvu, ndipo kwenikweni mantha iwo.
Iwo akhoza kulankhula kwa maora, kukangana kufunafuna choonadi kuyiwala za nthawi ndi malo kumene iwo ali.
Nthawi zambiri, pambuyo pa mapeto a mtsutso - iwo sangakhoze kukhadzikika ndi akubvomerezanso inertia zifukwa zokambirana naye.
Koma pamene zolinga zofanana kukwaniritsa wayamba ang'onoang'ono, pamene mkulu aluntha ngakhale kuwawonetsera katundu wake m'njira ina: wovuta kuchuluka pakati anzanga, ndi mmene umadzikondera wekha ndi mnzanuyo.
Izi zimaonekera makamaka pamene wina amafuna remake naye zina "okha." Pamene ngakhale ozindikira si zachilendo.
Zibwenzi n'zovuta kunyengezana wina ndi mzake. Akufuna kulamulira zilakolako za wina, amakhulupirirazo wina ndi mzake, ndipo ngakhale kulimbikitsa kusankha mabwenzi.
Nthawi zambiri bwenzi la amayesetsa kusonyeza mnzake wina - kufunika. Mwachitsanzo kusonyeza zipambano zawo ndi kupambana. Kapena patsogolo ntchito pa ntchito.
Koma zambiri angayambe Anthu Ambiri Amakonda kudzitamandira, kudzilungamitsa wa zolephera zake, monga kupeza ena zifukwa kupitirira anzanga.
Zonsezi zikhoza - anazindikira kapena ayi adazindikira mwa ophatikidzana nawo.
Amene kaŵirikaŵiri zikuonekera khalidwe lawo - mu mawonekedwe a kulowezana kwa mikangano ang'ono ndi chiyanjanitso, nthawi zina kutembenukira mu mawonekedwe a mtundu wa "zosangalatsa" mwamuna ndi mkazi pa nthawi yopuma.
Komabe, popanda kukumana ndi mavuto alionse makamaka kwambiri mabanja limodzi nthawi zonse amamva bwino kwa mzere kuti sayenera anawoloka.
Koopsa kusintha kwa zinthu angayambe pokhapokha ngati pazifukwa zina pali chidani yosatha pakati pa abwenzi (mwachitsanzo, chifukwa zosagwirizana maganizo). Ndiye aluntha ngakhale katundu kukhala yoopsa banja.
Ampangira mphamvu zake zonse ndi malingaliro anawatuma maganizo "yopuma" mkazi kapena mwamuna wina. Kuti tichite zimenezi, anayamba kuyang'ana vulnerabilities kumuchititsa mtima, vuto kapena kuwonongeka.
Patapita kanthawi chisudzulo ndi chipulumutso chokha kwa iwo.
Koma ngakhale zitatha izi, ndondomeko ya mfundo imeneyi ndi wamphamvu kwambiri moti amanyamula zibwenzi ngakhale pambuyo azingokhala banja - ophatikidzana nawo kwa zaka zingapo kupitiriza kubwezera pa wina ndi mzake.
Koma mwamwayi, zinthu pamene katundu zoipa ndi kuwonetseredwa ngakhale ozindikira - sanalembedwepo zambiri.
Anzeru pamtima wabwino kwambiri. abwenzi akhoza sidzaiŵalika chinaperekedwa chipongwe. Ngakhale chokhumudwitsa imeneyi zinali anati mawu opweteka.
Pofika kumapeto kwa phunziro katundu zoyambirira za ngakhale maganizo ndi aluntha, zingakhale zofunika kuti akatunge pang'ono.
Mkulu maganizo ngakhale ndi munthu - wabwino kupuma, kutakasuka naye.
Mkulu aluntha ngakhale - zabwino ntchito ndi kugawana cholinga.
A yaitali pafupipafupi kwambiri kulankhulana ndi munthu amene muli mkulu aluntha ngakhale - matayala.
Ndipo patapita kanthawi inu kuyamba tikusowa nthawi zina - mwachitsanzo kufunika kukhala kutali ndi munthu ameneyo, osachepera kwa kanthawi.
Pa nthawi yomweyo kulankhulana ndi munthu ngakhale mkulu maganizo - amatopa kwambiri. Ndipo sikutanthauza ndi holide imeneyi.
Ngati anthu awiri ali ndi mkulu ozindikira ndipo maganizo ngakhale, ndiye pali zinthu ziwiri: ngati anthu awa - mwamuna kapena mkazi, kutsogoza za mgwirizano pakati pawo makamaka mkulu maganizo ngakhale. Ndi mawonetseredwe yoyenera katundu - ndi mgwirizano pakati pa iwo.
Ndipo ngati anthu awa - anzake, kutsogoza kulankhulana amakhala makamaka mkulu aluntha ngakhale. Ndi mawonetseredwe a katundu zogwirizana.
Thupi ngakhale.
Nthawi zambiri zimakhudza ntchito chiwonetsero cha aluntha kapena maganizo katundu ngakhale.
Mwachitsanzo anthu ndi mkulu thupi ngakhale kumene kunachitika pambuyo mkangano - kuyanjanitsa mofulumira kwambiri amakonda kuposa anthu ngakhale mkulu thupi. Makamaka wamng'ono.
Zambiri amatchedwa ngakhale thupi - kugonana. Ndipo zifukwa zomveka.
Iye kwenikweni zotsatira kwambiri kugonana, makamaka noticeable ali mwana pamene banja nacho chosowa amphamvu kugonana.
Ndipo ndi chibadwa.
Komabe, ndi ukalamba, ndi zamoyo achilengedwe amafunikiranso akazi mu kugonana - yafupika, ndi mogwirizana kumachepetsa chiwonetsero cha thupi katundu wa ngakhale kapena zosagwirizana - akazi.
Ndithudi, ngati zogonana anachita azilemekeza apo - kumakhaladi zosatheka kuti azindikire zizindikiro za thupi katundu wa ngakhale kapena zosagwirizana.
Ndicho chifukwa pali nthawi zina pamene banjalo litatha pambuyo 20 - 30 m'banja zaka. Izi zimachitika makamaka mabanja akhalira limodzi kwa zaka zambiri - pakalibe ngakhale maganizo ndi ozindikira koma kokha kupyolera chimodzi chokha mkulu thupi ngakhale pakati pa iwo.
Ndiye kuti, ndi digiri yapamwamba ya wosangalala kugonana - wakhala yaikulu zabwino chinthu chimene chapangitsa kuti mabanja amenewa.
Koma pamene mu malo a m'badwo, kugonana cha mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi wofooka, ngakhale thupi watha kuti mbali yofunika kwambiri pa maubwenzi pakati pa iwo. Zomwe akumanidwa mabanja amenewa angakhale ndi tanthauzo - kupitiriza moyo wawo anapitiriza.
Pankhani yakugonana - kuyanjana kwakuthupi kumakhudza kugonana motere: monga tikudziwa kuyambira gawo loyambirira, munthawi yotsika thupi, thupi laumunthu pogonana limafunikira chithandizo chambiri, chofatsa komanso chokhalitsa, ndipo munthawi yopuma - imakhala yogwira ntchito, yachangu komanso yolimbikitsa ngakhale zogonana pang'ono.
Ngati pali kuyanjana kwambiri pakati pa okwatirana, ndiye kuti amamvetsetsana mwakugonana ndipo matupi awo amachitanso chimodzimodzi, popeza amadzuka ndikugwa nthawi yomweyo.
Zomwe zimawaululira zabwino zonse zomwe zimagwirizana ndi thupi.
Koma pankhani yosagwirizana pakati pa omwe ali pachibwenzi - zogonana zidzadziwika ndi iwo munjira zosiyanasiyana zomwe sizingawapatse kukhutira kwathunthu. Mwachitsanzo, wina muukwati akamafuna kukondedwa, winayo amangokhala mwamwano komanso mwachangu. Ndipo patapita kanthawi - asintha malo.
Zotsatira zake, kugonana kudzaleka kukhala chinthu chofunikira m'miyoyo yawo.
Mwamwayi, mosiyana ndi malingaliro komanso luntha lomwe anthu amakondana tsiku lililonse ndipo ngakhale ola lililonse, kuthupi (pogonana) kumachitika mokhazikika, kutengera zaka.
Zomwe zimachepetsa kuwonekera kwa kuthekera kwa kuthupi kwakuthupi ndi kusayenerana kwa okwatirana.
Kuchita kumawonetsa kuti ndikokwanira kukhala ndi thupi lokwanira pafupifupi 30 peresenti kuti kugonana kusasanduke katundu.
Koma pakugonana kumathetsa mikangano - kuyenderana kwakuthupi kumayenera kukhala kokulirapo. Makamaka ngati pali kutsika kwamalingaliro ndi luntha pakati pa okwatirana.
Kuwonetsera kwachiwiri kwa kusagwirizana kwakuthupi kumachitika pa kuzindikira kwa abwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, wina m'modzi akakhala ndi ntchito yolimbitsa thupi, mwachitsanzo, yomwe yangobwera m'maganizo, ndi mnzake panthawiyo, amakhala muntchito yokhayo, mwachitsanzo, yomwe amayenera kukonzekera kwa masiku angapo.
Zomwe zingapatse mpata zimamuwona mnzakeyo ngati munthu waulesi, wolemetsa pakukweza, wodekha. Ndipo zimapatsa kuwonjezeka kowonjezereka kwa mnzake.
Monga lamulo, kusakhazikika kumangodziunjikira pakapita nthawi ndikugawikana pazinthu zazing'ono. Ndipo zomwe zimayambitsa kukwiya - ndizosiyana kwathunthu komanso sizimayambira pazomwe zimayambitsa.
Koma mwamwayi, njirayi ilibe lingaliro lolimba pamaubwenzi apabanja, chifukwa monga lamulo limadziwonekera lokha ngati mtundu wa episodic.
Ndipo pakupita nthawi, awiriwo amakhala atazolowera kuti mmodzi ndi "waulesi komanso wopanda nzeru" ndipo amakhala nawo.
Choopsa chachikulu cha biorhythm yanyumba ndi momwe chimakhudzira maukwati achichepere komanso ogonana.
Kusagwirizana kwawo kungachititse kukana wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo kenako kupha miyoyo yawo kwazaka.
Zomwe nthawi zina zimabweretsa kuti mkangano unayamba pazinthu zazing'ono, zonse mwadzidzidzi, mosayembekezereka, umakhala chifukwa cha chisudzulo. Kuwabweretsera chikumbumtima chokhutira ndi izi.
Mu gawo loyambirira la bukuli, tinafotokoza zambiri zomwe zimadziwika kuti kuchepa ndikukwera.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyesere kutulutsa ziwonetsero zofananira zofananira kuzomwe ufulu wake uli:
Kuyanjana kwambiri - kumapereka malingaliro akumvetsetsa, kumvera chisoni, kugwirizanitsa omwe akukhala nawo, kukulitsa maluso awo akale ndikuwulula zatsopano, kuwamasula, kumapangitsa kudzidalira komanso kukhutira, kuwalola kuti azitha kusinthana wina ndi mnzake, mwachitsanzo, kusintha mawonekedwe a mnzake - mbali imodzi kapena imzake .
Kusagwirizana - kumapangitsa kuti zibwenzi zikhale zokhoma, kuponderezana ndipo sizimalola kuthekera kwawo kudziulula, kumverera kosamveka komanso kusamverana kumawonekera.
Otsatirana amakhala achinsinsi pamaso pa wina ndi mnzake ndipo sangasinthe chilichonse pamakhalidwe a wina ndi mnzake - sangathe.
Pali malingaliro osakhutira omwe mosakayika amadzazindikira m'dera lina lililonse.
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